i found this on "Two Hearts, One Soul" and thought it was perfectly put:
Don't spoil me. I know quite well that i ought not to have all that i ask for. I'm only testing You.
Don't be afraid to be firm with me. I prefer it, it makes me feel secure.
Don't let me form bad habits. I have to rely on You to detect them in an early stage.
Don't make me feel smaller than i am. It only makes me behave "stupidly big".
Don't correct me in front of people, if You can help it. I'll take much more notice if You talk quietly with me in private.
Don't make me feel that my mistakes are sins. It upsets my sense of values.
Don't protect me from consequences. I need to learn the painful way sometimes.
Don't be too upset when i say "i hate You". Sometimes it isn't You i hate but Your power thwart to me.
Don't take too much notice of my ailments. Sometimes they get me attention i don't need.
Don't nag. If You do, i shall have to protect myself by being deaf.
Don't forget that i cannot explain myself as well as i should like. That's why i am not always accurate.
Don't put me off when i ask questions. If You do, You'll find that i stop asking You and seek my information elsewhere.
Don't be inconsistent. That completely confuses me and makes me lose faith in You.
Don't tell me my fears are silly. They are terribly real and You can do much to reassure me if You try to understand.
Don't ever suggest that You are perfect or infallible. It gives me too great a shock when i discover that You are neither.
Don't ever think that it is so beneath Your dignity to apologize to me. An honest apology makes me surprisingly warm towards You.
Don't forget i love experimenting. I couldn't get along without it, so please put up with it.
Don't forget how quickly i am growing up. It must be difficult for You to keep pace with me, but please try.
Don't forget that i don't thrive without lots of love and understanding, but i don't need to tell You that, do i?
Please keep Yourself fit and healthy. I need You
- Author Unknown
