OK, so this is what happened. i was browsing Yahoo! Personals for the real nut jobs a few months ago. i get bored easily. i came across this profile of this guy that is perfect for me. Did nothing about it.
Fast forward a few months. i tell my friend, about him, and she said, "well, I have a subscription. you should email him." So i looked him up, and under her screen name i im'd him, pretending to be her. Just saying that if he is interested in getting to know her friend, he should give her a call and sh'll hook us up.
Well, the next day she im's me with his reply, that she should send a pic and his email address and bla bla bla. i im him, and talk for a little over three hours. Great conversation! Lots in common! Fantastic. The next day...nothing...the next day...nothing...the next...nothing. Sunday i go to that friend's house, and the next morning i am looking online to see if i can get into my message archive to see what my friends think. Is he interested? Isn't he? Do they think he is just busy? Well, it wasn't my message archive that i opened. It was my friend's.
Turns out they have been talking plenty. He isn't interested in me. Would this bother me? Absolutely not. i am not bothered by people uninterested in me. i'm used to it. What upsets me is that my friend didn't care about my feelings. She didn't even tell me. Maybe i'm naive, but friends do not do that.
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Howard
September 4, 2005 09:51 PM PDT
Definitely not the way to treat a friend. She should have let you know that she was interested in him. She didn't trust your friendship enough to think it could survive that fact. |
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